Re: I think kids should be taught how to fight fairly and honorably
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Date: February 18, 2015 04:37PM
1). TKD is a huge waste of time. It's a great "activity" for your kids, or great for an hour or so of babysitting. Otherwise, I'll take the wiry kid with a chip on his shoulder over the Korean 4th degree black belt.
2). Fighting truly solves nothing. While it's great to have Slater and Screech duke it out in the gym boxing ring on tv, real life isn't like that. A "fair fight" only exists in fantasy land. You've obviously never been in a fight if you believe in "fair" fighting.
3). There should be nothing "fair" about fighting anyway. Someone is trying to hurt you. If someone's about to choke me out should I think, "Oh, it wouldn't be fair to grab his nuts and twist until he's writhing on the floor an I'm able to kick him repeatedly until he's incapacitated"? Fuck no. My goal is to make it home that day. If that involves eye gouging, biting and violent kicks to the sack, I guess that makes me an unfair, girly fighter...who survived. You might not with all your "honor" and "fairness". It's a fucking head-for-an-eye.
4). Kids should learn as soon as possible that using violence is an absolute last ditch effort to resolve a situation. While you may want to punch the guy who cut you off or the one who gave you think stink eye, you're an asshole if you actually act on that primal instinct and deserve to get your ass handed to you.
If you're going to partake in a physical altercation you should do so with every understanding that your opponent means to hurt you. Badly. No punch in the mouth and "still want some?", but put your ass in the hospital shit.
Like teaching them to not point a gun unless you're willing to use it, you should not raise your fists in anger unless you're willing to accept the responsibility that may come with it