So this woman at work touched me in my...area.

I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex in about a month and honestly contemplated doing something with her. But then she touched me and I felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.

I can't even look at her now without feeling physically sick to my stomach and hugely uncomfortable around her.

What the hell? Most people would dream of that happening. I don't understand what happened and why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual advances. Although, I definitely brought it on myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel traumatized by it.

I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and anxiety and dread when she comes in.

Flirting with someone doesn't give them the right to touch you, male or female. You should have punched her lights out.

You are a cheap male slut..
Now you finally realize it.

You wanted it.
You got it.

Stop thinking dirty thoughts.
If you stop wanting any sex,
maybe someday in a few years you
will be able to look yourself in the mirror
and not feel like a dirty cheap perverted slut.

But probably you will not be able to stop thinking about it.
You will want it.
Because you are a cheap slut.

Kill yourself.

What kind of Kansas City Faggot are you anyway?

No need to be so harsh. She's really ugly and it's why I never took the chances, the flirting was fun. Not going to kill myself over it. If anything, I'll kill her and it'll be justified. The needy cunt throws herself at everyone. I just don't like being groped by a wilderbeast.

Violated Wrote:
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> No need to be so harsh. She's really ugly and it's
> why I never took the chances, the flirting was
> fun. Not going to kill myself over it. If
> anything, I'll kill her and it'll be justified.
> The needy cunt throws herself at everyone. I just
> don't like being groped by a wilderbeast.


Take one of the following actions.

1. File a complaint with HR. Chances are she will be asked to resign and fired if she refuses.

2. Do not whack off or have sex for two weeks, take her to applebees for some mixed drinks and then hit the super8 with her and nail it harder than Chinese arithmetic.

3. Find a new job.

4. Go ahead and admit that you are gay.

options.. Wrote:
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> Violated Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > No need to be so harsh. She's really ugly and
> it's
> > why I never took the chances, the flirting was
> > fun. Not going to kill myself over it. If
> > anything, I'll kill her and it'll be justified.
> > The needy cunt throws herself at everyone. I
> just
> > don't like being groped by a wilderbeast.
>
>
> Take one of the following actions.
>
> 1. File a complaint with HR. Chances are she will
> be asked to resign and fired if she refuses.
>
> 2. Do not whack off or have sex for two weeks,
> take her to applebees for some mixed drinks and
> then hit the super8 with her and nail it harder
> than Chinese arithmetic.
>
> 3. Find a new job.
>
> 4. Go ahead and admit that you are gay.

+100 the above is good advise. I find it difficult to believe a single man would feel violated by being touched by someone he was flirting with. Fun to dream it might be true but its not of course. We men are simple creatures when it comes to sexual contact with no repercussions - literally binary. We want it can we have it 1. yes 2. no. Playing along with the ruse, Id say options #1 (complaint) or #4 (you are a Kansas City Faggot) are your only real options here. If you wanted to hit it you would have with little choice after she touched you (probably there in the janitors closet or toilet stall).

I think you gave her the wrong signals, and she is doing what most guys would want her to if they did the same.

Its good that you feel odd, shows you are considerate. Nothing worse than awkwardness at work if you two did get together and you realized it wad just primal and she later repulsed you. Then you gotta see her everday. Ugh, wnd she may even tell coworkers you hooked up ruining your chances with a real hottie at work who you wouldnt mind everyone knowing you hooked up with.

Tell her how you feel and that you are sorry if you gave her the wrong idea. Maybe you both share in the blame here.

You dont want to hit it because as Austin Powers said..."it got wierd, didnt it?"

Don't blame yourself Wrote:
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> Flirting with someone doesn't give them the right
> to touch you, male or female. You should have
> punched her lights out.


You know I would of! WHAP!

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.


She was checking to be sure you are actually a dude. This was her "Crocodile Dundee" impersonation.

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.

You were obviously asking for it op.

Violated Wrote:
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> No need to be so harsh. She's really ugly and it's
> why I never took the chances, the flirting was
> fun. Not going to kill myself over it. If
> anything, I'll kill her and it'll be justified.
> The needy cunt throws herself at everyone. I just
> don't like being groped by a wilderbeast.


Um is her name Megan Toohey by chance? If so I would immediately get some penicillin, as she made physical contact with you.

In general, I would say if she touched you and it was inappropriate, then report her.

But it does seem that you encouraged the touching, and did the correct thing by stopping her and letting her know you were not feeling it.

What your feeling I think comes mostly from your confusion that you did not like being touched in you no-no place, and wondering why.

Unless she is still trying to touch you and you need to tell your boss.

But I think in a week or so, you will get over it.

Don't blame yourself Wrote:
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> Flirting with someone doesn't give them the right
> to touch you, male or female.


Um, yes it does if they are female. You led her on with the flirting. She took it to the next level. You pussied out. As others said, go kill yourself if that offends you.

Or go home and tell your wife and see what she says.

You guys are funny. If I uploaded a picture of her you'd understand but I won't be that cruel. Like I said I enjoyed the flirting. If that makes me a faggot in your little eyes then so be it. I already spoke with our boss and he said he would speak with her as well.

I'm also not married. And just can't and won't have sex with just anything that throws itself at me. I'm very surprised by my own reaction.

OP is an obvious troll and you all took the bait.

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.


It just means you're a closet homosexual.

Nice try Wrote:
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> OP is an obvious troll and you all took the bait.


Not at all, but I did expect some trolls and am surprised by the support some gave.


Again, I'm not gay, she's hideous and after she did that, I realized that I am not that desperate lol but am still bothered by her boldness and how repulsive she is to me now.

Stonewall Wrote:
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>
> It just means you're a closet homosexual.


This.

Here's you answer
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Why would you flirt with someone who's 'hideous'. That's just inviting problems.

Because it was just flirting and I was trying to make someone jealous. It actually ended up working but not before I got my karma I guess.

Still..not a soul deserves to feel the way she made me feel. So I feel for women who have actually been raped or whatever.

Zero relations at your place of employment (unless you are a waiter/bartender then its part of the job description). Dont lead homely chicks on its cruel. That said she did exhibit one of the finer traits of the less than beautiful female - they work extra hard at everything sexual. Ill bet she would have been in the top 5 best pieces of ass you ever had!

You see..that's exactly what another coworker was saying lol he was like she'll probably be the best you've ever had.

She has a nice body but a butterface and an overbearing personality. And her aggressiveness was a turn off. I don't want to be chased, it's nice to be wanted but that was just too much.

I get chills thinking about it lol. Some of the harshness has made me see that I probably am making a bigger deal out of it but it's just mainly my own reaction that's getting to me.

It just made me realize how easy it is to be offended in that manner and that women deal with that type of thing all the time and to think I've probably made someone feel that way before..

-shudder

OP: I think you should consider talking to a psychological professional to explore whether the assault aggravated a deeper issue for you--and I'm not suggesting homosexuality, but rather, wonder if there's a chance that the aggressive and unwanted sexual contact might be eliciting disgust because it taps some forgotten abusive incident from your childhood.

I am concerned for you. And the fact that one comment attributed to you above referenced a desire to eliminate her leaves me concerned for her too. To my mind, the clue that this incident might have triggered feelings of humiliation and powerlessness during an earlier violation in your youth lies in the passion of your angry reaction following her violation of you, despite the fact that your flirting, if sexually explicit, might have given her signals that you desired a sexual relationship (though her assault of you is indefensible).

Take care of yourself and please just avoid her for both of your sakes.

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.

if that's true, and i'm %75 sure it isn't

she'll next prosecute you to get back at you

it's called "PROSECUTING THE VICTIM" and fx co gov is all about that

look up VAWA laws and what happens to %99 of guys accused of: %99 are convicted as if %99 of women are Ivory Soap pure

Dude, no one cares about you. You're a huge douche. It's really that simple.

Violated Wrote:
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> Because it was just flirting and I was trying to
> make someone jealous. It actually ended up working
> but not before I got my karma I guess.
>
> Still..not a soul deserves to feel the way she
> made me feel. So I feel for women who have
> actually been raped or whatever.

You may or may not be gay but most certainly are a first rate pussy. Flirting with the office hag to make another more attractive co-worker jelly? Pathetic. And then this whole "I can relate to the sisters who have been raped or whatever" thing. What did she do, put on a strap-on and bend you over your desk to sodomize you?

This girl I met at a bar once grabbed my junk right after I was introduced to her, making me spill my beer. She was absolutely hammered and right afterwards turned to my friend (who didn't know whether to protect his junk or beer, he chose the beer) stammering and slurs, "he's shy". Just then another girl comes along and realizes she has to guide her drunk girlfriend home which she does but not until she raises her blouse and flashes her funbags to everyone in the bar.

Another much more attractive and sober girl then buys me a beer to replace the one I spilled and we have an immediate conversation starter which led to much more than I care to share on a likely troll thread.

Different (serious) take on this Wrote:
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> OP: I think you should consider talking to a
> psychological professional to explore whether the
> assault aggravated a deeper issue for you--and I'm
> not suggesting homosexuality, but rather, wonder
> if there's a chance that the aggressive and
> unwanted sexual contact might be eliciting disgust
> because it taps some forgotten abusive incident
> from your childhood.
>
> I am concerned for you. And the fact that one
> comment attributed to you above referenced a
> desire to eliminate her leaves me concerned for
> her too. To my mind, the clue that this incident
> might have triggered feelings of humiliation and
> powerlessness during an earlier violation in your
> youth lies in the passion of your angry reaction
> following her violation of you, despite the fact
> that your flirting, if sexually explicit, might
> have given her signals that you desired a sexual
> relationship (though her assault of you is
> indefensible).
>
> Take care of yourself and please just avoid her
> for both of your sakes.


You very well may be correct here. Thank you. I was joking about killing her though lol

^^^^ Just another miz thread^^^^

pure shit.

I don't know what that means

OP: I seem to be the lone voice of reason and compassion in a wilderness crawling with trolls and other useless responders on this thread.

Assuming you truly seek to feel better and reach closure, I suggest you stop engaging with nasty posters here and make an appointment to talk with a health professional.

FFU seems to harbor few mature, decent, and kind commenters these days.

If someone grabbed your "stuff" at work, wow, that's pretty bad. I think most women would go to HR under those circumstances and that would be my advice to you - HR.

As far as flirting with wildebeasts go - Stop Doing That

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.


Moron does what?

Thanks you two. I haven't been replying to the fools. They obviously can't get ANY at all and can't comprehend why a male wouldn't want any woman touching them at all, ever so that makes me gay because I don't want a gross woman molesting me lol. Genius.

I was being sarcastic by the way. I'm still not gay but just might have to go that way after this.

gotcha Wrote:
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> If someone grabbed your "stuff" at work, wow,
> that's pretty bad. I think most women would go to
> HR under those circumstances and that would be my
> advice to you - HR.
>
> As far as flirting with wildebeasts go - Stop
> Doing That


I spoke with our boss and he said if anything happens again she's gone. So although she's has left me alone physically she's raping my mind all day when she's around and just gives off bad vibes and makes there be an increased tension.

Don't blame yourself Wrote:
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> Flirting with someone doesn't give them the right
> to touch you, male or female. You should have
> punched her lights out.


Thank you

A different take, again Wrote:
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> OP: I seem to be the lone voice of reason and
> compassion in a wilderness crawling with trolls
> and other useless responders on this thread.
>
> Assuming you truly seek to feel better and reach
> closure, I suggest you stop engaging with nasty
> posters here and make an appointment to talk with
> a health professional.
>
> FFU seems to harbor few mature, decent, and kind
> commenters these days.

Thank you

Violated Wrote:
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> gotcha Wrote:
> --------------------------------------------------
> -----
> > If someone grabbed your "stuff" at work, wow,
> > that's pretty bad. I think most women would go
> to
> > HR under those circumstances and that would be
> my
> > advice to you - HR.
> >
> > As far as flirting with wildebeasts go - Stop
> > Doing That
>
>
> I spoke with our boss and he said if anything
> happens again she's gone. So although she's has
> left me alone physically she's raping my mind all
> day when she's around and just gives off bad vibes
> and makes there be an increased tension.

I can see not feeling comfortable working around a person who did that. Grabbing a coworker like that at work...yeesh. It doesn't matter if she's hot or not. What she did to you was gross, out of line, certainly not professional. Do you have an HR? Does your boss know specifically what she did to you?

Unless by "flirting" you mean that you two were in the process of making out in your cubical and there is a lot more to this story than you're saying (in which case you were both behaving unprofessionally at work), she was way out of line. And I can't blame you for being bothered by it.

Oh these kids now days. You get a blow job from her and then leave her in the dust.

The best way to get other women in the office jealous.

Here is the bitch in question... Any questions?
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A different take, again Wrote:
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> OP: I seem to be the lone voice of reason and
> compassion in a wilderness crawling with trolls
> and other useless responders on this thread.
>
> Assuming you truly seek to feel better and reach
> closure, I suggest you stop engaging with nasty
> posters here and make an appointment to talk with
> a health professional.
>
FFU seems to harbor few mature, decent, and kind commenters these days.


Yes, they're called idiots who fall for OP's troll bait.

Violated Wrote:
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> So this woman at work touched me in my...area.
>
> I had been flirting with her and haven't had sex
> in about a month and honestly contemplated doing
> something with her. But then she touched me and I
> felt so violated and completely repulsed by her.
>
> I can't even look at her now without feeling
> physically sick to my stomach and hugely
> uncomfortable around her.
>
> What the hell? Most people would dream of that
> happening. I don't understand what happened and
> why I'm feeling like this but I think I understand
> now how women feel when they have unwanted sexual
> advances. Although, I definitely brought it on
> myself by flirting but holy shit I honestly feel
> traumatized by it.
>
> I spoke with her and she knows how I feel but I
> can't shake this feeling of impeding doom and
> anxiety and dread when she comes in.

Your obviously a homosexual who is just now finding out about it. My advice is to do a swan dive off the highest building that you can access

Troll bait Wrote:
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> Here is the bitch in question... Any questions?

Is that you there with her, troll?

if that's how you felt after she touched you imagine how you would feel after she banged you...

Fucked a fat hispanic girl last night, met her at the bar, I feel like shit today :(...

I need to stop getting so drunk.

Fat people are disgusting.

I feel for you OP.

always thinking of FFXU Wrote:
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> Fucked a fat hispanic girl last night, met her at
> the bar, I feel like shit today :(...
>
> I need to stop getting so drunk.
>
> Fat people are disgusting.
>
> I feel for you OP.

You need a to get a handle on yourself son. Getting so drunk that you lose control and sleep with people you aren't attracted to and don't respect is a sign that you have some problems in that head of yours. Sort it out.

Only a completely stupid fucking moron would flirt with the office beast in order to make someone else he is attracted to jealous. That is one of the lamest things I've ever heard. OP must have a room temperature IQ. Dude, you must be fucking brain dead.

We don't know what working environment the Op is in. Is it an office? A hospital? A store? A pizza delivery place?

We can not assume that the wildebeast is an office beast. They may be dog walkers for all we know and that can get quite complicated. It is a terrible, terrible thing that is for sure.

saiuyhgt Wrote:
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> if that's how you felt after she touched you
> imagine how you would feel after she banged you...


I know. This is why it's not happening. I guess I'm grateful for it now.

OP is a fucking moron Wrote:
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> Only a completely stupid fucking moron would flirt
> with the office beast in order to make someone
> else he is attracted to jealous. That is one of
> the lamest things I've ever heard. OP must have a
> room temperature IQ. Dude, you must be fucking
> brain dead.

Well since it worked and the girl I actually desired is showing interest I think it was worth the trauma.

I'm over it. It was partly my fault. The issue has been resolved. I've learned my lesson. Instant karma hurts but can also be a good thing.

And to whoever keeps calling me gay, sorry I'm not interested.