Re: 2 Q's - DUI
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2 Q's
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Date: December 10, 2008 04:24PM
bs Wrote:
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> It's always so interesting how many people come on
> this site to ask questions about their drunk
> and/or criminal "friends." If only so much caring
> and compassion for thier "friends" were displayed
> prior to their arrests perhaps the crime would
> never have even been committed.
I disagree. My "friends" told me not to drink and drive 10 yrs ago, and I did, and got busted. I don't think its new that it's a dumb choice, and a stupid thing to do. Unfortunately when you are wasted, you lose your ability to rationalize. At least in my case :)
If you must know the "friend" is my idiot brother. He's younger than me, and he knows better than to drive drunk because of what I went through back in the day. Luckily there was no accident involved, no manslaughter, etc which is a plus- but it still p*sses me off (I didnt have those things either! Just DWI). I asked these Q's since the laws have changed since back in the day when my "friends" or I got DWI's. I was just curious as the refusal charge is new to me, and when I went to research it, it seemed unclear if it was an "automatic" suspension on TOP of everything else (ie: possible 2 yrs suspended, fines, ASAP, etc), or if it went hand in hand with the DUI conviction (ie: same outcome, 1 yr suspended, plus fines, ASAP, etc). Honestly, I hope he loses his license for 2 yrs- he deserves it. I was trying to find out if this was going to be the case so I could rub it in his face.
Anywho- thanks to everyone who responded, it really helped me clarify! And for the record, I am a huge advocate of not drinking and driving. I haven't had a drink and got behind the wheel in 10 yrs, and never will. Getting charged with DWI was a HUGE eye opener for me, knowing I could have killed someone, a family, etc. Having kids of my own now, I couldn't imagine. Call me a hypocrite, but that's how I feel.