Re: Fairfax Connector bus in Indiana
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Another One Rides The Bus
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Date: August 20, 2013 10:19AM
Bus story Wrote:
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> Ahhh, the Fairfax bus. Reminds me of a story
> about a bus in a play. Seeing the play also kicked
> off a bit of me wishing I was with Goose, and I
> tested the waters, confirming that she is, in
> fact, dating Benedick. I know that she's not the
> one for me, but sometimes things are hard to know.
> Later I told a friend I hadn't talked to since
> high school, whom I randomly chatted up on
> facebook, "She'd be the one that got away, if I
> weren't completely certain there's a girl out
> there whose better for me."On the 31st, I turned
> in my SPU application. That's right, a full day
> before it was due. First time in my life. That
> afternoon, before turning it in, I had lunch with
> my old Microsoft pals, one to have lunch with
> them, and two, to get my letters of recommendation
> (which were incredibly kind) signed. It was a good
> thing they were signed, too, because they almost
> rejected one on account of it not being in an
> envelope. Alas, I had forgotten to print out the
> second half of my written thing, which was a list
> of teaching experiences I'd had, so I emailed that
> to them that night. All that's left now is an
> interview on March 10, and then waiting one to two
> weeks for an application letter. I got the feeling
> there were 100+ applicants per year, but ALL of
> the interviews, which are required in person,
> happen on the 10th between 8 and 4pm. I'm just
> trying to imagine how 100 people get interviewed
> in 8 hours without a LOT of interviewers. Anyway,
> I'm not too worried. If this is what God wants,
> then I'll be accepted. If not, then since I think
> God has me where he wants me right now, he must
> have a plan to get me to where I need to go next.
> Plus, it's not like I'm not an ideal candidate for
> the spot anyway. The only thing I could have done
> better, perhaps, was to double-major in math, but
> I took enough math to cover all the requirements
> for the MTMS (masters in teaching math and
> science) without taking any other courses.As for
> girls, as there must always be a for girls, I'm a
> bit put off right now. A day or two ago, I was
> angsty and frustrated, and way too into it,
> applying my girl-situation to my identity, where
> it does not belong. So, once again, I'm at a place
> where if I find a girl, cool, if not, I have other
> things to worry about--even though I really don't,
> having money and no employment. Moving! Right.
> Good. I was worried I had nothing to worry about.
> Anyway, all that's really happened since Belle is
> a few girls I met for lunch, none of which went
> spectacularly. This latest one, I met in
> Bellingham, and I thought it went well enough to
> warrant a second date, but she did not. What was
> great about it, though, is that it got me to
> Bellingham where I met with Rufus and Solomon.
> It'd been entirely too long since I'd talked to
> either of them, and seeing them again was both
> wonderful and nurturing to my soul. Solomon is so
> sincere with his Christ-like love. While talking
> with Rufus at the VU, I saw a good six or seven
> other people I knew from back in the day, pastors
> and friends and Fir Creek counselors. I have no
> doubt that the reason I ran into this girl on
> eHarmony was to get me to Bellingham. Besides, who
> wants to date a girl that enjoyed The Phantom
> Menace and wanted to see it in 3D? *dog with
> shifty eyes*The meeting with Solomon spawned off
> an email thread, largely about girls and what to
> look for in girls when looking to marry. I've read
> it a few times now because he is incredibly
> insightful. If I get his permission, I'd love to
> post it on my blog, or maybe a link to it. If not,
> well, sucks to be you, I guess.I guess saying I
> only met a few girls for lunch isn't fair. For a
> little while, I was kind of seeing this girl. We
> met up a few times. She was the first girl I've
> ever really been on a date with that was (more
> than a year) older than me, though not much older.
> I'm not really sure why we dropped out of contact,
> but I think we both felt we should. I don't know.
> Looking back through nostalgia-colored lenses, I
> miss her a little. Or maybe (matter-of-factly) I'm
> just lonely.The rest of these past months is just
> keeping busy. I refuse to get bored while
> unemployed. I've volunteered at my church and also
> at that Kirkland high school, though they have no
> place for me in the classroom right now. For my
> church, they have me doing repetitive menial
> tasks, which so far I've actually enjoyed. When
> they set me up to do some data entry, they showed
> me the software suite they're using, which only
> lets you search for one member at a time. I
> noticed that it runs on an .mdb (Microsoft Access)
> file, and told them I could whip together a quick
> program that lets you see all the people who are
> members in a list at once, along with all the
> people in the list who are new. Tomorrow I'm going
> to work with the volunteer coordinator to put
> together a rough spec, since my initial one-hour
> version doesn't quite do everything needed.If I'm
> going to make that meeting, I should probably end
> this post now. I've been getting up, most days, at
> 8:30--quite a feat when I don't have anything to
> do during the day--and reading my Bible while
> sipping Frappuccino. I was never good at reading
> my Bible regularly, so I'm determined to make this
> habit stick.lol!! World Relief University Monday,
> September 26, 2011 Today I met wisdom incarnate.
> He's the former Bishop of Rwanda, having recently
> retired. He spoke for an hour or so at the
> beginning of a day dedicated to explaining the
> vision and execution of World Relief Rwanda. This
> is a man who represents and leads the entire
> country through the Anglican church, a man who
> speaks to hundreds if not thousands at a time, a
> man who speaks to and councils presidents and
> ambassadors, here to talk to the twelve of us.He
> didn't speak on behalf of World Relief, but he
> definitely agreed with their work and
> methodology.The Rwandan government relies heavily
> on the Church to care for the most vulnerable.
> That is Jesus' mandate for the Church, and the
> Church therefore, presumably, is the body most fit
> for the task. Is it the government's duty as well?
> Yes, I think it is, but in the US, the Church
> often shrugs off its responsibility, its core
> purpose, because we can rationalize that our
> government has already taken care of it.It's
> entirely foreign to me that government should rely
> on the church to do anything. It seems to me our
> government tries to do what would make our lives
> better, avoiding at all costs any relationship to
> the church; the church is a hinderance, not an
> asset. Recently I was considering whether it might
> not be a good idea to completely remove marriage,
> a religious notion, from our laws. Let the church
> handle religion. Hearing Bishop John's telling of
> how the Rwandan government and church work
> together, complement each other, may have turned
> me around on that. Of course, it's easier when 90%
> of the population claims to be Christian.The
> Bishop talked a bit about the US, where he has
> lived in the past, and some of the Church's
> failures there. One of those failures, he said, is
> not being able to talk about Christianity in the
> schools. I assume he means students not being able
> to, but he didn't specify. I asked him how the
> church could not fail in that regard and he said
> it needs to change its attitude; it needs to be
> more humble. He said the Anglican church has
> figured out everything, and it leaves no room for
> the Spirit. He then asked if he had answered my
> question, which I felt he had not, so I asked how
> that would change the government's position on
> religion in the schools. Essentially he said the
> government doesn't value the church because we no
> longer have anything of value to offer. "The
> church doesn't do magic. If you put salt in a pan
> and heat the pan with the food and serve it
> immediately, the salt won't have added any
> flavor." He suggested that if we humble ourselves
> and serve rather than rant, in a generation or
> two, we may see change in how people view
> Christianity. It's certainly food for
> thought.Another culture shock that I mentioned
> previously is Rwanda's view of Sex. "Professor"
> Maurice, my translator on Thursday for the
> pastoral retreat, talked a bit about the
> Mobilizing for Life program they have which
> teaches faithfulness and abstinence to combat
> AIDS. I asked a devil's advocate question, as I do
> so often, "When the US, historically, has taught
> abstinence only, it's failed miserably. It doesn't
> reduce the amount of sex, it reduces the amount of
> safe sex. (Thank you CJ Craig.) What do we expect
> to happen here?" In the last three or four years,
> the number of sexually active youth in areas where
> the benefits of abstinence has been taught has
> dropped from 33% to 12%. Maurice talked about a
> lot of testimonies. Pastor Phil said there are
> statistics to support this as well. He went on to
> talk about the many supporters of Rwanda, whether
> they be governments or organizations, that all
> have agendas for Rwanda and Africa. They all have
> their own ideals. Much of what comes in is
> helpful, from financial aid to education to
> entrepreneurial spirit. But with the good also
> comes the bad and the ugly, and just because the
> US can't keep its dick in its pants, doesn't mean
> the rest of the world can't. Since then (two hours
> ago) I've been thinking about what could cause
> this separation in values (and abstinence is a
> value in Rwanda). I know it's not belief in the
> Bible, as this education is still being taught to
> the country and roughly one in three pastors
> aren't even "born again." It's not ancestral roots
> (they're not being taught it by their parents) as
> polygamy is an issue here. I'm left thinking it's
> our media, our advertising, our obsession with sex
> in the first place. They have no sex appeal ads
> because they have no ads at all. I'm not blaming
> the media outright as the media wouldn't present
> what we don't want to see. There's a Jack Johnson
> song about this called "Cookie Jar".These two
> pointed questions earned me the prestigious
> Hardest Questions award during graduation from
> World Relief University. overheard at the end of
> Bishop John's talk, on the way to tea that Rwanda
> is, too, materialistic. Americans put their faith
> and trust in the objects they own. Rwandans put
> their hope in the objects they think would make
> their lives complete. I guess Americans do that as
> well. It's an interesting thought, to be sure.What
> I've learned today is that life as it's meant to
> be is hard. In fact, it's impossible. The amount
> of forgiveness, the metaphorical seventy times
> seven, for every possible way someone can sin
> against us, whether that be accidental,
> misunderstanding, cruelty, thievery, rape, or
> murder of loved ones... how can you? With the 1994
> genocide raw in everyone's minds here, it makes
> all of this that much more real. The amount of
> healing through forgiveness that's happened in the
> last 17 years is phenomenal. Selling your stuff to
> support those in need? I can easily give, and in
> fact enjoy giving, out of my abundance, but ask me
> to sell my tv, or laptop, or car to help someone?
> Not happening. LIfe, Liberty, and the Pursuit of
> Happiness? God gives us life and the liberty to do
> with it and fail as we please in our own pursuit
> of happiness. Life is the one thing we, as
> Americans, feel we have as our own. How can we
> give that up completely? It's impossible. "With
> Christ all things are possible." It's hard to
> comprehend, much less believe, much less act on.On
> lighter topics (and it is now this entry's
> tomorrow, about 18 hours since starting it), we
> left our hotel in Musanze yesterday morning.
> Before leaving, we walked up to the Catholic
> church about five minutes away and prayed for the
> region. Dyanah didn't walk with us. I thought she
> was being lazy since she got in a car that was to
> pick us up at the church. It turns out she was
> leaving, so I missed my chance to hug her goodbye.
> Nothing grieves me more than missed opportunities
> for relationship, romantic or not. To my future
> girlfriends, never tease me by offering a kiss and
> then denying it because of something, legitimate
> or not, I did. It tears me apart.The ride to our
> new home, where the day-university class was held,
> was about 40 minutes long, bumpy and upward.
> (We're just about to leave this place, and I just
> carried my bags up the stairs to where the SUVs
> are. To give you an idea of the elevation, not
> only am I winded, which would be normal, but
> everyone else has mentioned being winded too.) We
> got some beautiful shots of waterfalls and people
> working their fields. The retreat center we went
> to has the most glorious view I've ever seen,
> tenfold and then some. It overlooks a large lake
> with several islands in the middle. There's no
> electricity to the islands, so there are no power
> lines crossing the water or anything else to mar
> the scene. Not that I've ever been a poetic
> writer, but I doubt anyone but a poet laureate
> could capture the view. Or a photo. With the
> world's best camera. Yeah, you really should just
> visit.Glory be to God, we had a bathroom door in
> our room
Ihad almost the same experience on a CUE Bus years ago.