Re: So, what should we do about them Mexicants?
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Date: August 11, 2008 05:47PM
yeaaaaaa Wrote:
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> The problem isn't one of language, really. It's a
> culture issue.
>
> Sure, America is based on a mixing of many
> cultures. But much of this happened at the turn
> of the century as families immigrated through
> Ellis Island. We all shared a certain hardship.
> There was a similar struggle, even if our cultures
> dictacted differences. Black and Native Americans
> had a different story of 'integration' and
> acceptance but it still was about focusing on our
> similarities and accepting our shared humanity.
>
> Mexican immigrant, unfortunately, haven't and
> likely won't experience this fate. Times are
> different. Americans are suspicious of jobs being
> stolen, interest rates rising, credit card debt
> affecting our bottom line. Add on top of this the
> language barrier. Then add the Mexican cultural
> interest in being prolific child bearers, not
> investing in seemingly frivolous things like car
> insurance or English language assitance, and
> playing ear splitting Mexican folk music on car
> stereos. We can argue those last three
> generalities to oblivion. But every culture
> (including white culture) has its ups and terrible
> downs. And you have to admit you've had more than
> 1 occasion where you were sitting at a red light
> and had to contend with the music, went to the
> grocery store and noticed 2 18-year old moms with
> 4 children between them, or ordered at McDonalds
> and been greeted with both English and Spanish and
> when altering your order were met with a look of
> "huh".
>
> The generalities are rude and hurtful. But
> they're based on real experience.
>
> So, I think Mexicans will have a hard time
> integrating. Changing their living situation is
> much easier. Trying to accomodate themselves into
> a neighborhood that accepts them because stores
> are in Spanglish, people working there are
> bi-lingual, grocery stories feature items their
> culture values. And who can blame them... wanting
> to live in a neighborhood they recognize or that
> when they step out the door feels accepting?
> Everyone wants that. And people who've had it all
> their lives only know this when it's taken from
> them and their neighborhood seems altered.
>
> "What should we do"?
>
> You have two choices.
>
> 1) Move. To an area that resembles what you used
> to appreciate in your neighborhood. And hope it
> doesn't change.
>
> 2) Stay. And find a way to not be miserable.
> Which means either learning Spanish or being
> hard-headed and not learning it... sticking with
> your personal ideals. It also means finding a way
> to not be annoyed with your Mexican neighbors or
> those you encounter at the grocery store or at the
> red lights OR outright accecpting your racist
> tendencies and finding a way to deal with the
> stress internally.
>
> The choices aren't awesome.
> But that's what you've got to deal with.
>
> And, in the end, at least by accepting you're a
> racist you're being honest about the full
> situation.
A couple of things are flawed here. Number one, I suspect the "Mexican" population in this area is actually quite low. The El Salvadorean, Honduran, etc population is quite high, from my experience.
Number two, how is any of this being "racist?" Being Hispanic is not a race, it's an ethnicity.
My brother dates a woman from Columbia. She's here legally and she speaks fluent English. She put herself through college and it educated. She is now gainfully employed. Even SHE has a problem with the illegals in this area. She can't stand people from Central America as they are viewed as the absolute bottom of the barrel. They are uneducated and generally unsavory people. They have no desire to be an "American" like she does. They refuse to assimilate, learn English, and basically be productive people, other than having entirely too many children than they can afford. The kinds she hates are the types who have to run around with bumper stickers and flags from El Salvador and Ecuador and who expect American culture, and yes, there IS such a thing, to adapt to them,
This is no different than if, all of a sudden, a bunch of white guys wearing khakis and polo shirts started hanging out down in El Salvador on the street corner and then all of a sudden more white guys followed. Pretty soon the white guys took over entire neighborhoods and busiensses. Then the white guys refused to speak any other language than English and then demanded the same from the locals and the government. Don't tell me for a minute that the El Salvadoreans wouldn't resent the changes the "new neighbors" brought to their community. Would you be calling them "racist" as well? Food for thought...