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Doe's anyone on here use craigslist to swing or for 3somes? I'm very serious. We have used it a couple times and it has actually worked out well for us. The only problem has been that all the other couples are located in MD. We're a very attractive couple and require the same in return as we are picky..
Are you a hetero couple looking for a single female? That seems to be lot tougher to find, at least one D/D free who is not borderline psycho, than a bi-curious single guy. Are you new to the area? You might want to check this site for information on clubs http://www.swingersclublist.com/Washington_DC_swingers.html.
My husband and I swing all the time for something to spice up our sex life. We just go to local Northern Va bars and meet couples there. Most couples in Northern Va are up for swapping for an evening or something different.
We need to meet a couple first in person before we will play, craigslist would never works for us.
Curious Wrote:
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> On a somewhat related note, has anyone ever used
> Ashley Madison? Is it a total scam or does anyone
> ever meet through that site?
Are you male or female? I think that women clearly have the upper hand on AM, but I have met several women and had short-term NSA/FWB relationships with a couple of them. The initial introduction through e-mail can be tough, but once you get past that I have had good luck moving from that to coffee in order to see whether there is any chemistry. Cybersex has also been a good icebreaker for me.
While there is the occassional bored, wild MILF, you will find a lot of women who are your typical 35-45 year old mom next door who is in decent shape and is looking for excitement or a change of pace. The toughest part of this is finding a time and place to get together. I have something like 350K Marriott points, so using 20K for a room is pretty easy to keep cover up.
I was once a man but always knew I was supposed to be a woman. So, after 15 years of marriage, and 2 kids, I decided to have a sex change. My wife divorced me. Now, a woman, I find that I am still attracted to women just like when I was a man. I met a nice woman while I was going through the changes and fell in love with her. So, right before the final change from man to woman, she and I married and conceived a child. Then, my you know what was removed and I was, in fact a real woman. So, I guess I am now a gay female.
My wife and I would love to swing but just don’t know where to find others like us. I only want to do it with women. My wife likes both men and women, and anything in between. So, where do people like us go for some fun?
Mike Sorce Wrote:
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> Curious Wrote:
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> > On a somewhat related note, has anyone ever
> used
> > Ashley Madison? Is it a total scam or does
> anyone
> > ever meet through that site?
>
>
> Are you male or female? I think that women
> clearly have the upper hand on AM, but I have met
> several women and had short-term NSA/FWB
> relationships with a couple of them. The initial
> introduction through e-mail can be tough, but once
> you get past that I have had good luck moving from
> that to coffee in order to see whether there is
> any chemistry. Cybersex has also been a good
> icebreaker for me.
>
> While there is the occassional bored, wild MILF,
> you will find a lot of women who are your typical
> 35-45 year old mom next door who is in decent
> shape and is looking for excitement or a change of
> pace. The toughest part of this is finding a time
> and place to get together. I have something like
> 350K Marriott points, so using 20K for a room is
> pretty easy to keep cover up.
I would support what Mike said about Ashley Madison adding that I have used it to meet women in Atlanta and Greensboro which makes things a lot easier than finding time to get away in and around Fairfax. I travel 6-10 nights per month with many of my trips to these areas. Rather than eat alone and watch TV I can call my friend with benefits, have a nice dinner at my hotel and then enjoy some adult fun. It took a while to get this all figured out and it still takes some planning, especially for her, but it seems to work out well.
transwhatever Wrote:
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> Traveler,
>
> Do you drive a truck? One of those big wheeler
> things? Would you be interested in the wife of a
> transsexual man?
Uh...no to all three questions. If you are serious about being a transsexual as described in your previous I would have to take a pass. I know one male-female TS in a similar situation and the vibe from the wife/partner is just way too weird. Not judging, but I really have a hard time getting my head around this. Since you and your wife are both women, does that mean that your wife is bi or a lesbian?
young swinger Wrote:
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> Doe's anyone on here use craigslist to swing or
> for 3somes? I'm very serious. We have used it a
> couple times and it has actually worked out well
> for us. The only problem has been that all the
> other couples are located in MD. We're a very
> attractive couple and require the same in return
> as we are picky..
We tried a couple times, but the problem wasn't finding someone attractive, but just finding someone not a spam bot. Especially on w4mw.
This is not making your life better but worse, and if you're married the majority of you will not be soon. These actions will begin to errode the foundation of your relationship, if they haven't already.
What you're looking for is not something you can touch to feel the emptiness inside you. Don't short change yourself or your life.
detail Wrote:
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> You know you are all CRAZY!
>
> This is not making your life better but worse, and
> if you're married the majority of you will not be
> soon. These actions will begin to errode the
> foundation of your relationship, if they haven't
> already.
>
> What you're looking for is not something you can
> touch to feel the emptiness inside you. Don't
> short change yourself or your life.
>
> Not a sermon just a thought!
detail Wrote:
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> You know you are all CRAZY!
>
> This is not making your life better but worse, and
> if you're married the majority of you will not be
> soon. These actions will begin to errode the
> foundation of your relationship, if they haven't
> already.
>
> What you're looking for is not something you can
> touch to feel the emptiness inside you. Don't
> short change yourself or your life.
>
> Not a sermon just a thought!
What are we looking for? God?
Jealousy is the reason why humans have made their own rule about marriage. God never made a rule about sex or who you are allowed to be attracted to. The human race is designed to multiply just like every other living, organism/creature etc.
We are given something called "attraction" with "hormones" which has us crave/want sex. If god really wanted us to stay with one person, then he would have designed us in a different way where we would desire only what he wanted us to desire.
It's most likely a bigger sin using condoms than having sex with multiple partners. LoL
If you have the genes and desire; you should enjoy them. People who think its wrong should only "think it" because no one cares what you think or what you're parents taught you when you were little.
Mr. K and I had some close friends that we thought we knew really well. One night, they suprised us by suggesting that we swap. Then they told us that other friends we had in common did it all the time.
That was way too freaky for us, so we passed. FYI all of the "swinging" marriages (that we knew of) have ended in divorce.
What's really funny is that gay people can't get married and be faithful and monogamous to each other, but swingers can get married and fuck all sorts of different people. Which is the better example of "sanctity of marriage?"
I believe one of the 10 Commandants is no adultry?
Consider for example, geese, they are animals which God made and they mate for life, interesting idea, no?
I feel men in general are pulling women down, don't get me wrong I like men.
But consider there's more abuse committed towards women by men.
Alot more men then we really care to admit are really gay, and rather they admittment it or not hate women, mostly.
The majority of the pedifiles are gay or have gay tendencies.
You don't see as many women killing off their spouses as you do men offing them.
I could go on and on...but you get my message and the stats are there to support me.
Alot of women are blinded by love and will do about anything to keep their marriage going, even if it's wrong. I notice all the posts here that support swinging are men, go figure? You've become animals.
Grow up and putting God aside, you shouldn't be doing anything you wouldn't want your mama or child to see or hear about, and if you do and that shames you, then you know you are doing wrong on so many levels.
Last thought, Greece and Rome were destroyed exactly for reasons like this, are you ready for that, I'm not so quit pushing it. I have children I would like to see enjoy life, not throw it away as you folks seem to.
It's up to women, who are the stronger sex anyway, by God giving us the birth right, to take leadership, and not follow.
You are a really good troll, because every fiber of my being wants to completely dismantle every single thing you said, and point out the veritable cornucopia of logical fallacies I've been presented with.
But I won't. I have to get ready for my morning talk show.
Genevieve Wrote:
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> Genevieve became a fan of Swinging.
>
> /Spunky convinced me
> //Facebook style
Aw, sweet! If you're attractive, would your man (or woman, who knows these days) be interested in swapping partners?
I'll only do it on the condition that you don't give mine back.
MrMephisto Wrote:
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> Aw, sweet! If you're attractive, would your man
> (or woman, who knows these days) be interested in
> swapping partners?
>
> I'll only do it on the condition that you don't
> give mine back.
You'll have to talk to REStonPeace, but I don't think we're interested in any permanent swaps. :-P
too bad many women I know ABUSE their strengths by witholding or not caring enough about their man to share with them. I think if more were less hung-up about their looks and could give into their true feelings, there'd be ALOT less men looking for adventure, and alot less women being abused.
I should know..I'm mentally abused at home. and I'm male
Genevieve Wrote:
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> MrMephisto Wrote:
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> > Ok, so not for free, but maybe for a candy bar?
>
>
> For 1 candy bar? You're gonna have to do better
> than that.
No, what I mean is, I give YOU my partner, you give ME a candy bar. No swapping of partners, just an even trade of my partner for the bar of candy. Then you can, I don't know, swing with her or something.
Unless you're saying my partner's not worth a candy bar. In which case, I'm prepared to throw in $5.00 to sweeten the deal.
Mrs. K Wrote:
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> I'm going to say what others are thinking:
>
> If you let your wife abuse you, then you deserve
> it.
Can we talk?? Maybe I'm a nice guy..trying to keep a family together because I DIDN'T have a father around, and know the value of a 2-parent family. Maybe I'm putting up with the crap to the breaking point, because I know my kids deserve the chances to learn how to be a father, rather than stumbling along like I had to!
Mrs. K., I'm a nice caring person. Sometimes bad things happen to good people.
Mrs. K Wrote:
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> I'm going to say what others are thinking:
>
> If you let your wife abuse you, then you deserve
> it.
Not just wives. If guy or girl picks a bad partner, especially to marry, there are ways of getting out of it.
TJ, if you're being mentally abused, there's options for you. Women frequently emotionally and mentally abuse guys, but guys are less likely to report it or seek help because of social mores.
It's not what's happened to you, it's what you do about it.
P.S. My partner is mentally abusive, too. Would you like to swap?
I'm in a physically abusive relationship. My wife ties me up on the bed every night and rides me like I'm a pony in the county fair. I only want sex once a year.
However, you should call your local rape/abuse hotline and tell them that you think you're being abused against your will. They will provide counseling, and help you get out of the relationship. You can, with a little help and a lot of healing, move on from this horrible woman and find a decent, respectable girl that loves you and cherishes you just the way you are.
Then, you could give me the contact info for your ex-wife.
young swinger Wrote:
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> Doe's anyone on here use craigslist to swing or
> for 3somes? I'm very serious. We have used it a
> couple times and it has actually worked out well
> for us. The only problem has been that all the
> other couples are located in MD. We're a very
> attractive couple and require the same in return
> as we are picky..
You noob, post that crap on www.xpeeps.com and not on here.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/17/2009 03:36PM by Dork.
bulova.gov has stalked white workers for being swingers, firing them in some fein of a moral gov
once she replaces them all with f'ing foreigners, the rules magically change, sexual behavior is protected especially if gay
also, bulova.gov stalked white workers for removing UNUSED materials off job site, firingi them accusing them of theft
bulova.gov then goes and hires green cards who are whole sale selling worksite materials on Craig's List ... and this is never questioned by her democrat gov
gradf Wrote:
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> Looking for swingers parties as well only I am
> single and want to bang lesbian couples.
Hit up my silly man Lurch Papa, the Mayor of Loudon County, rick. He'll hit you up with some silly nussies and dudebros who are down with that alt lifestyle, donk. He'll get you cised.